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Sexual services for women and couples in Bangkok

In the years that site has been online I’ve received numerous emails and comments about places that service couples and single women. The issue particularly comes up about Bangkok. I think a lot of women and couples travel to the City of Angels and figure they might as well try out of some of the local specialties, and no I’m not talking about pad thai.

Julie Bangkok escort for couples

While this site is meant for entertainment only I am able to pass on what I know to the readers. I’m not all knowing, but when it comes to adult entertainment in Thailand I do have a decent grasp on things. That’s a plus because Bangkok is probably home to more couple and female friendly places than most other cities in the world, even after the closing of the infamous Eden Club. What follows is a list of places that happily offer their services to adventurous couples and single women who may be lesbians or simply in the mood for some experimentation.

Ola Ola massage

Ola Ola is one of the best Japanese-style nuru massage parlors in Bangkok. That’s why I gave a rare five star score when I wrote my review of Ola Ola massage. The place delivers stellar nuru massages to men. But they also have a lot of options for couples and single women!

One thing that really sets Ola Ola apart is they have both men and women on staff. They also have both straight and heteroflexible people on the team. So a single woman can drop in and get a massage from a man or woman. The same options exist for couples and single guys too.

On top of that they have a couples massage option delivered by both a man and a woman at the same time. For couples this can be done all in the same room or in separate quarters. Solo customers can enjoy a massage from both a man and woman together. This is a unique and interesting option.

There are pictures of both male and female staff at the shop’s website. But they also have a lot more people working behind the scenes. They can be seen in person by rocking up to the shop. Though the shop can also be contacted online for more detail.

AYA Massage

AYA Massage is an extravagant Moroccan themed parlor in the heart of Bangkok that goes out of its way to cater to couples. Bisexual women working on staff are more than comfortable working with both male and female clients at the same time.

This place stands out from the pack in that its surroundings exude elegance. A lot of thought was put into the design of AYA Massage. That same level of care extends to the services rendered. The attentive and attractive staff aim to please.

A special one hour full service massage couples costs just 4,500 Baht ($129 USD). For 2,000 Baht more a second service provider will join in the session for a “four hands massage”.

Oily massage parlors

Many of the oily massage parlors in Bangkok may offer their services to couples or single women if they wander into their shops but only a handful openly advertise the service. My educated guess is that places that specifically mention couples and solo ladies are most likely to have women on staff who are into the scene rather than women who are simply doing a job for the Baht and nothing more. One only need look at the closest minimum wage worker to see how much effort comes from those who are simply going through the motions to get a pay check.

sensual couple massage in bangkok

One Bangkok massage parlor that happily serves a diverse range of clientele is Cherry Massage on Soi 24/1. Bangkok Passion, Analisa, and Sensual Massage are also happy to help couples as I and others have personally confirmed. Granted these massage parlors mostly serve men so they aren’t luxurious spas like women who have only been to high end massage shops in some of the richer countries may expect when they hear “massage.” Prices should be about 3000 Baht per person for an hour with everything included. Though the prices can fluctuate quite a bit. Tips are optional.

Nuru massage in Bangkok

Nuru massage originated in Japan but has since become popular around the world. Nuru nuru means slippery in Japanese. Nuru massage involves a service provider covering her body in a slippery gel and sliding all over the customers. This usually takes place on a specially designed inflatable mat.

Until recently most places claiming to offer nuru massage in Bangkok were basically just doing oil massages with a different lotion. But now there are several real nuru massage parlors in Bangkok with highly trained women on staff.

A few of the modern nuru massage parlors happily accept women and couples as clients. One is the esteemed Picasso on Sukhumvit Soi 19. Nuru massage parlors Aries Bangkok and Doki Doki massage parlor on Soi 31 also serve women and couples. The same goes for Casanova Soi 33 and BKK Vice on Soi 39.

Escorts for women and couples

I understand that a lot of women and couples may be a little on the shy side even if they are open enough to seek out special services. For whatever reason they may not want to venture into what they consider seedy areas or be seen going in and out of well known dens of inequity. It’s no wonder then that escorts are so popular, especially for the discerning customer. There are other reasons too of course, which is also why escort services can charge a premium. As with many things in life, you get what you pay for.

In addition to allowing one (or two) to be serviced in the comfort of their hotel or home, escort services also allow for advanced previews and a bit of vetting. There are all kinds of reviews online and poor service is hard to hide in the age of the internet via ubiquitous smart phones. Many massage parlors have some preview pics on their websites. The aforementioned Eden used to have pictures but they don’t anymore. The better escort services have big portfolios of pictures and offer online customer service.

As with the massage parlors there are some escort agencies that openly advertise their services to women and couples. Like I wrote before, they are probably better equipped to handle such customers than agencies that may only acquiesce if a request is specifically made.

Berry Smooci Bangkok

The recently launched Smooci platform offers the easiest access to the myriad of escort agencies in Bangkok. Smooci comes in both a website and an app format. Customers just click a few buttons to indicate what time they are looking for an escort and how long of a session they require and they are presented with a list of various women who work in Bangkok.

Along with names, statistics and photographs, the profiles of the women on Smooci also list the services each particular escort offers. Those who are willing and able to meet with couples have the word “couples” prominently listed among their services. There is also a set of filters that can be used to remove any women who do not service couples from the listings.

It doesn’t cost anything to use Smooci and it is about as easy as it gets in terms of navigation. Smooci does offer a premium membership option that provides a lot of extra options. The premium option comes with a one time charge that is not renewed. Memberships can be purchased in increments lasting as little as three days or as long as one year.

Smooci’s premium membership allows users to track their escort as they travel to their place in the way that users can track Uber drivers when they hail a ride with that app. Premium members at Smooci can also see customer reviews and certified photographs of the escorts in addition to being able to book appointments as much as 24 hours in advance.

Prices among escorts vary in Bangkok but most who work with couples charge about 10000 Baht ($300 USD) for a two hour session. That is at least the rate with women from well known agencies like Bangkok Escort and Pure Bangkok Escorts who work through Smooci.

So there you have it. This list isn’t exhaustive but I’ve done my best to make it inclusive. I hope you enjoy.

102 thoughts on “Sexual services for women and couples in Bangkok”

  1. I am heading to bangkok for a solo travel trip and looking for a female companion as a escort/tour guide/dinner date. Sex can be on the menu but not a must, and preferable a young girl (18-25). Would it be a good idea to simple walk into a go go bar on my first day, and just ask girls down for lady drinks till i find a suitable one? Do the go go bar fine charge me to bring the girl out once, or do they charge the bar fine on a per/day basis? How much would roughly expect to shell out for a 3d2n stint…?

    1. Hi. Most people in the know would probably suggest that go go bars in Bangkok aren’t great places to find a tour guide nowadays. Most of the women, or at least the younger and more attractive women, are only interested in fast money. Many won’t even stay a full night anymore, let alone a long period of time. There are some who will but it’s not like the old days when such a thing was easy. Most also don’t speak much English. If a customer takes a lady for three days he will have to bar a barefine for those three days. A way around it is for a woman to call out sick or take a few days off and meet the customer outside of the bar but that’s generally only possible when the customer has some kind of relationship with the lady since she can get in trouble at work for doing such a thing. All of this is why more than a few guys looking for a long time tour guide and companion go the escort route. Of course this is all speculation and conjecture though. As you can tell by reading this site I don’t recommend anything. The site is only meant to entertain the reader. Cheers.

  2. Hi I am a single lady and would be visiting BKK shortly, would love to know if there are any massage centers that cater to women by providing a male masseurs/soap/b2b/yoni. I would like a male masseur specifically. Also heard a boy go go bars are not entirely for gay, would you please make any suggestions?

    1. I don’t make suggestions since this website is for entertainment only. I don’t know of any male massage places open to women. They are usually gay oriented though I imagine a woman might be accepted in some. The same would go for gay go go bars. I don’t information about those kinds of places because I have no interest in them at all. Cheers.

    2. Hello ,did you find any ??you can have that kind of fun in delhi also ,with very professional care and handsome ,you can even see the pics before

  3. Here’s some suggestions for your wife to try out – –

    Over the past 7 or 8 years, my wife has visited many boy massage parlors in Bangkok. My wife prefers an erotic/sex massage in any upscale shop which is clean and nice, and where she can get a good professional erotic oil massage from a boy, and it is up to her whether or not she decides to go all the way and fuck the massage boy.

    I always go with her, and I generally try to select places where there are also girls on staff (so that I can fuck a massage lady) or if the boy shop is next door to a girl shop, then I will help my wife select her boy, and I make sure she is cool with it, and then I go next door to the massage girl place.

    These are our top 6 selections, your mileage may vary, caveat emptor – –

    (1.) Banana Massage, Sukhumvit Soi 23 – – It’s diagonally across a small intersection from the Chokchai Steak House. This is the newest place we’ve tried, and it was great. You can walk less than 50 meters and find a suitable girl shop for yourself, while your wife is enjoying boy-frolic. This place has women on staff who do cleaning, and who do foot massages on the ground floor, but the old ladies aren’t available for “oil/sex” massages. You walk one floor up from the lobby, and the Japanese-looking manager, whose nickname is either “Kevin” or “Kalvin”, will help you select a boy for your wife. Then, your wife will depart, and she will go one more floor up to the shower/locker rooms and the private massage/fuck chambers. At that point, you can depart, and either go back down to the lobby for a foot massage, or just walk a few steps in the direction of Sukhumvit (towards Cowboy) and find any number of places where girls are giving oil massages plus either boom-boom or yum-yum. We’ve visited only one time, and I’m sure we’ll be back. I was waiting in the lobby when my wife and her “boy” came walking down the stairs after their 90-minutes was over. I didn’t have to ask if it was “good”. My wife was grinning from ear to ear, her legs were wobbly, and the massage boy had that emotionally-shocked look on his face, as if he was thinking “..no mommy, no mommy..”.. So, I knew it all went well, and we’ll be back again.

    (2.) Oasis Massage (formerly Casanova) Soi Convent – – Directly across from BNH hospital. Woman-friendly, rooms vary in quality, the shop has mostly old women with a few boys. The women and the boys are all very user-friendly, and anything goes, no limits, if you’re a big tipper. The quality of the boys is very unpredictable, as their boys seem to come and go, but the old women stay. Very good professional and erotic massages are available, performed by men and women for men and women. My wife has only rarely received a good fucking at Oasis, but she has always gotten her clit licked and her pussy massaged, by both the boys and the old ladies. For you guys, prepare to tip big (2,000 to 3,000) to fuck any of the old massage ladies. On the plus side, while these old ladies are of course in it for the money, they also crave a good fuck, and the wet cunts and the pussy contractions and the screaming orgasms seem quite genuine. Overall rating, “Very Good”. We’ve visited Oasis about 30 or 40 times, losing count (LOL)

    (3.) Adonis Massage, Soi Convent – – Has massage boys only, no women on staff. Adonis is woman-friendly, and the rooms vary in quality, and the boys really vary in quality from the non-satisfying 3-inches 3-minutes, to the other extreme, including a few real stallions who can fuck for a good long while. Emphasis seems to be more on sex than massage (LOL). Overall rating, “Good”. We’ve visited Adonis about 4 or 5 times.

    (4.) BBB Inn Gay Hotel (Rama 4 Road, near Surawong intersection) – – Has massage boys only, no women on staff. BBB is woman-friendly, and the rooms are excellent in quality. The rooms are in fact standard hotel rooms, with big beds, and full baths, very nice. The boys really vary in quality from paedo-erotic twinky 20-year olds, to the other extreme, including a few big boys who can bring huge meat to the task and fuck for a long while. Good sex and good massage are both available. Overall rating, “Very Good”. We’ve visited BBB Inn 3 times.

    (5.) Arena Spa (Silom Plaza, Silom Road) – – Has massage boys only, no women on staff. Arena is woman-friendly, and the rooms vary in quality, and the boys really vary in quality from non-erect bottom boys, to mediocre big boys. Emphasis is definitely more on sex than massage. However, management emphasis is more on sales than on quality. (Management understands what we seek (and that is rare) and management talks the talk, but the boys they recommend have thus far never performed as promised.) Overall rating, “Fair”. We’ve visited Arena 2 times.

    (6.) Urban Male Massage (Sukhumvit Soi 23) – – (Next door to “Banana”) Has massage boys only, no women on staff. Urban Male was previously woman-friendly, but is no more.. The rooms are small, but very nice and new and clean in quality. The boys seem to all be a cut above average in terms of cleanliness and appearance, and they are all good-quality high-performers. Good sex and good massage were both available. Overall rating, “Very Good”. We’ve visited Urban Male 4 or 5 times, but no more. The new manager wants his “gay-for-pay” boys to pretend as if they don’t fuck women, so cross this previously good one off your list. (Note: When the local economy slides further downhill, you can be certain that Urban Male will accept women again..)

    Enjoy.

    1. I guess that anything is possible but it’s not a commonly offered service. There have been touts around Patpong pushing “sex shows” for years though those who are gullible enough to follow them usually find a boring dance accompanied with vastly overpriced drinks that must be paid “or else.” Cheers.

  4. hiw we are a good looking couple looking for male to join us for first time 3 some wonder if you can help
    david and apinya

    1. Unless you want me to do your lady I’m afraid I can’t be of much help. I simply write what’s on this website for entertainment. Cheers.

  5. I am going to BANGKOK and PATTAYA on19th OCTOBER2016 for 7days, I want male massager for my wife, and I want to watch this from orther room. Is It possible?

  6. Looking for a nice male for my wife to get lick and fuck her pussy while either I join in to guck my wife together or get another girl and fuck her while watching the guy fucking my wife. Not sure they have this service

    1. If they do I haven’t heard of it. Some guys claim they find guys at gay massage and go go bars for their wives. I’d imagine more can find eager guys for free by various means. Cheers.

  7. hi….
    escort services is available for both unmarried and married couple’s couple want to join the sex massage on a single bad .this service will be provided by the both girl and boy.it cost is very simple and this service is available i the full city.

  8. Escorts are just there to fulfill your desire, you easily hire them in Thailand and can fulfill them
    Thailand is the best place to have fun because it has everything that you want.

  9. Look for a couple with whom we can swap massages in Bkk/Pattaya/Phuket. I massge your wife in front of you….and in turn you return the favour to me with massaging my wife. Not looking for full swap right away, but it is a possibility as well. If it happens it will be by cuckolding each other.

  10. Hi Rockit,
    I am transiting via BKK, I have around 12 hrs of layover. Can you please suggest me some nearby massage+full service places to Suvarnabhumi Airport and are there any special transportation services to that place. Also do we still need a VISA to get into city in this case when I have connecting flight in 12 hrs or so. Thanks

    1. I don’t make suggestions. This website is meant for entertainment only. Some people from some countries need a visa. Others don’t. Taxis go from the airport to nearly everywhere in Thailand. Cheers.

  11. Rockit, you appear to have attracted all of the people who used to cruise CL until it’s personals section closed down!

    Keep it up man, totally the best site out there.

  12. I am a woman planning to come Thailand this December. I want go for oil massage ending with sex by a male massaue. Please guide me where and which centre offers this type of good service.

  13. Me and my gf also want to take erotic nuru message but no penetration, only hand job for me and oral for my gf as a happy ending… I have searched and picked the places and we want to experience that…But the question is, Is those places safe, discreet and no hidden cameras etc..

    1. I’ve updated the post to include information about some nuru massage parlors that welcome women and couples. Cheers.

      1. Thanks for sharing.. Highly appreciated..Safety is first.. After that pleasure… Will check Banana Massage and Absolute Massage as top priority after that others if didn’t like either.
        Thanks

      1. I and my gf , we want to have experience in our life of sex and massage. My gf need to get fuck by a boy or a group of boys. please give me the places.

    1. There are many male masseuses in Bangkok who would probably be happy to help you. Couples often go to the male massage parlors in Patpong for male service. Cheers.

  14. I’m a single lady looking for a male masseur just for anal vice versa no penetration. Mainly licking and sucking. Any recommendations?

    1. I don’t make suggestions as this website is for entertainment only. That said some men in your position have been known to take their wives to the gay massage parlors in Silom that are just staffed by men who actually prefer women. Cheers.

      1. I can comfirm that some of the “gay” masseurs would be happy to finish inside a female client. One guy in a franchise shop of a famous Silom establishment was excellent at making me “happy” but refused the oral relief I was looking for. And yet he knew his way around a man’s nether regions quite well,.

    1. Hi. I haven’t been there in ages. From what I hear there are probably a few places and people willing to service couples. Though I would guess that it would be more limited and come at a premium price. Cheers.

  15. I am a lesbian who booked an escort recently in Bangkok based off this website and comments and the website for Bangkok Passion. I called Bangkok Passion and asked for a female massage outcall to my hotel. I wasn’t able to choose or communicate many preferences on the phone, and the massage therapist who arrived did not have much experience with women, but the in person experience was lovely and I recommend.

        1. It’s an international site that provides a guide to entertainment. Last year moved offshore to the Netherlands due to US laws. Members become seniors. I’m sure you’re familiar, if not already a Senior! I’ve been a senior for about five years, and use your site and theirs as my entertainment research tools.

          I can send you a link to her report if you ping my email.

  16. Hi my wife and I are in town for a few days, and we are interested in finding another couple for the same room soft swap activities. Would you recommend the best ways to find such couples?
    thanks!

    1. Hi Mike. I don’t make recommendations as this website is meant for entertainment only. Craigslist used to be a popular website for swingers to meet before it eliminated its personals section. These days aren’t as many popular options. Apparently swinging is also illegal in Thailand and people have actually been arrested for it. People continue to do it but they usually aren’t out in the open. Cheers.

  17. I am travelling with my wife. We want to get a massage where I get massaged by a lady and she a guy. Are there any outcasts available for some action in your hotel room .

    My wife also wants a boyfriend experience with a western guy where she can go and a date and see what happens next. Any website to hire such guys.

    Thanks for the info in advance.

      1. I have written before on this topic, cant find it one year later, maybe it was posted in another category?
        I say like Mike Tyson in Hangover 2. I have seen everything. Many lesbian young and middle aged Farang women picking up entertainment in Gogo Bars. Young newly married couples spicing up the honeymoon. A husband and his wife 70+ getting a girl in Crazy House-the old lady chosed the dancer. They were back multibel times in a few weeks, and the Bargirl who I fucked before, just rolled her eyes at me and laughed, dont know what happend in the Hotel room or Shorttime room.

        In massage places you can only relate to your own experiene, but everything is probably possible.

        But if “the wife wants a boyfriend experience with a western guy”, why go to Bangkok? Cheers.

    1. RTTF TB; earlier in the comments a contributor provided an excellent rundown of options. His mention of Adonis and Oasis are spot on. I’ve had great success with the young men at SpaBangkok who admitted to me he was hetero but needed the work, after he had throated my pole!

      For combo action, Smooci has been mentioned, which I would use if my partner were willing to be with another guy while I bang a lady in the same room.

  18. Where did all of the freelancers that used to populate downstairs bar in Grand Hyatt Erawan move to? After the reopen there is new parisian bistro restaurant (excellent by the way), but the bar and dancefloor/stage half are still shut down. Disco under Intercontinental across street is not my thing.

  19. hi Rockitt,
    DevilsDenn is reopening their outcall massage shortly, their website mentioned August 2023, do you have any information on that?
    also, I do not find the articles on sexual services for women in Pattaya anymore, there was one general one and one specifically about boyzboyzboyz
    gr

  20. I am going to BANGKOK and PATTAYA on19th OCTOBER2023 for 4days, I want male massager for my wife, and I want to watch this from orther room. Is It possible?

  21. I am coming with few female friends. We were looking for a place/bar/pub/club where young men could join us for a drink in a cubicle and go sit nude with us. Maybe give a handjob sip a beer. We have any such concept in pattaya?

    1. Some of the older places in areas like Sunee Plaza are reportedly more hands on than other bars. I haven’t been to any to confirm. In any event I don’t make recommendations as I am a simple reporter. Cheers.

  22. We had a good trip to Pattaya beginning of this year and stayed at Ramakien. Spending and enjoying nake whole day at the pool. There was a couple sat next to us and we had chatted together. It was fun but nothing impressive. Then the night came. Suddenly there was a boy jump into the pool. We laughed because at that time the temperature down to 17 degree. The boy smiled to us and said hello. I wanted to give time for my wife to talk to the boy. So I went to get some more beer. My wife drank about 02 bottles of Shinha. Her face was red. She was interested in chatting with the boy. It made me surprise because she told me she likes someone more mature. Then the light of playroom turn on. Everyone went to the room. It was the first time for us. We were very curious and followed others going to the playroom. What happen I the play was shocked to us but was very excited. We watched people having sex. We enjoyed waiting people having sex. Then the boy appeared. My wife smiled at him. He came near to us and looked at me asking for permission. I shaken my head and he touched my wife from her back side while she was holding me. Then she was gradually turning to him and holding him. They kissed in front of me. This was the first for her and me. It was amazing that I did not know how to express….

    We will be in BKK end of this year. We are looking some fun for couples dun such as bars, massages, nake resorts…

    Thank you very much for your share

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